Colossians 3:23-24 23 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, 24 since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.
The interaction with between men come from different walks of life ... vocation, families, occupation, addiction, debts etc.... He is to be used for God's Kingdom purpose.
The spiritual man does things that appear to be contrary to reason. The closer, and cleaner in Christ the more our separation unto God the greater the mis-understandings we create.
Patience is needed always. If we lean on personal feelings, or emotions and don't ask God for guidance, we make the wrong decision.
1 Corinthians 2:15-16
15 The person with the Spirit makes judgments about all things, but such a person is not subject
to merely human judgments,16 for “Who has known the mind of the Lord so as to instruct him?”[a But we have the mind of Christ.